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Encouraging Entrepreneurship in Your Children

Encouraging Entrepreneurism in Your Children by Theodore HendersonDeep down, nearly every one of us wants to be an entrepreneur. However, forgoing your weekly paycheck to follow your true passion takes lots of self-confidence. Many of us lack that confidence. Therefore, a great portion of our lives may be spent working to build someone else’s wealth.

If that confidence was instilled within us at a younger age, we might all have the courage to open up a business. Give your children the opportunity to truly be in charge of their lives by encouraging a sense of entrepreneurship in their youth.

Encouraging entrepreneurship within your children can teach them to be:

  • Self-sufficient
  • An effective leader
  • A strong decision maker
  • Confident in their ideas and ability to succeed

Raising an entrepreneur is more than telling your child to make money; it’s about telling them to go against the crowd and follow their own intuition. Since many parents have instilled this sense of confidence in their children, the sight of self-made wealthy teens is becoming more and more common.

When encouraging entrepreneurship within your children, the only thing you have to fear is the embarrassment of declaring that your 15-year-old son earns a higher yearly income than you!

The Story of Ashley Qualls

Ashley started Whatever Life, a website that provides MySpace layouts, when she was just 15 years old. Soon after beginning her venture, the website took off. And Ashley was declining buyout offers from savvy investors. Four short years later, Ashley’s net worth was over $4,000,000 and growing each year.

The only startup cash necessary was $15 to register her website and a small monthly fee (typically less than $10) to host her website.

Raising a Young Entrepreneur

Teaching your children about entrepreneurship need not require a fat pocket. In fact, the basis of an entrepreneurial mindset is self-sufficiency. Therefore, children can come up with the money to start the business through their own efforts.

If your children are old enough, they can get an after school job or help around the house in exchange for an allowance. Many business ideas can be funded for less than $100.

Once your child has invested time, effort, and their own money into their business startup, they are more likely to see it through and become successful business owners.

They’ll learn each step of the way and tweak their business until it becomes profitable. When your child embraces failure as a learning experience rather than a collapse, you’ll begin to see a flourishing entrepreneur growing before your eyes.

You can encourage entrepreneurship within your kids by teaching them that:

  • Any idea is a valid business idea
  • Failure is okay as long as you keep improving
  • Profitable business requires continuous learning and tweaking
  • Creativity is what counts
  • Being innovative makes you stand out from your competitors

Some of your child’s business ideas will lead to great success, while others provide little more than a tremendous learning experience. Some ventures will prove to be highly profitable, while others may only produce a few dollars. The key is to teach your children to be resilient and keep moving forward toward their dreams.

If your child’s business ideas succeed, continue to encourage them to seek greater levels of success. Along the way, continue to promote self-sufficiency, independent thinking, and confidence within your kids. With these three traits, success is theirs for the taking!

How to Create a Family Budget

How to Create a Family Budget by Theodore HendersonFor singles, creating a budget is relatively easy. They tend to already have a good handle on how much money they have coming in, and when tracking expenses, they only have their own to think about. But creating a family budget is a whole new ball game and one that can be fraught with anxiety. Most parents simply don’t want their children to have to do without anything at all, and while this is certainly understandable, it is actually not the smartest or healthiest way to raise children. Children need to learn how to earn, respect and save money while they are young in order to be financially savvy adults.

Most families have multiple sources of income. And when there are multiple spenders, that makes things much more confusing. This is one of the main reasons that families lack a formal budget. But having a budget and sticking to it can greatly improve a family’s financial outlook.

Making a family budget may be tricky, but it can be done. Here’s how.

  1. Take inventory of all income. If a certain source of income fluctuates from month to month, use the lowest amount or average it out.
  2. Keep track of all expenses for a month or so. Keep all of your receipts, and ask all family members to turn theirs in to you each day.
  3. Add up your monthly expenses. Be sure to include bills, debt payments, groceries, and everyday expenses such as lunch money and transportation costs.
  4. Get the family together and discuss ways you can trim the budget. Getting input from other family members will help you determine which expenses are necessary and which ones could be cut down or eliminated. Maybe you or your spouse could start taking lunch to work instead of eating out, or maybe the kids can drop an extracurricular activity.
  5. In addition to individual expenses, discuss how you can cut down on the electric bill, groceries and other necessary family expenses. Consider such things as carpooling or taking public transportation, buying more generic foods and adjusting the thermostat.
  6. Estimate how much you can save on regular expenses, and cut the completely unnecessary items out of the budget. Then re-figure it and see where you stand.
  7. If you end up with a surplus, allocate a portion of it to savings. If you’re in the red, go back and rework the budget until you have more income than expenses.

Being Realistic

One reason that family budgets often fail is because they’re just not realistic. It’s great to cut down on expenses, but sometimes we tend to go too far. For example, cutting entertainment out of the budget completely might look good on paper, but we all need a little diversion every now and then.

Instead of cutting such things out of the budget completely, consider finding ways to lower the cost. Going back to the entertainment example, maybe you’ve been going to dinner and a movie as a family twice a month. But eating in and renting a new release would be much cheaper, and you would still get to spend quality time together.

Individual expenses can also be tricky. This can be resolved by allocating a certain amount for each family member to spend each week. If someone spends his entire amount before the week is up, reevaluate his expenses and adjust if necessary.

Creating a family budget can help keep spending under control, leaving more money to pay down debts and save for future goals. But in order to succeed, close monitoring is essential. Your efforts will be rewarded, however, with less financial stress and more money in the long run.

How to Dine Out For Less

This is a great article on saving money while dining out from AARP by Jeff Yeager. He is the author of the book, ”The Ultimate Cheapskate’s Road Map to True Riches.” His Web site is http://www.ultimatecheapskate.com/.

How to Save Money While Dining OutAmericans have gone restaurant crazy. According to the U.S. Census Bureau, 42 percent of the typical American family’s food budget is now spent on food prepared outside the home—in other words, eating out.

As rates of dining out have steadily climbed during the past few decades, so has the size of the family kitchen. Kitchens with commercial-sized appliances and enough counter space to land an aircraft on are now the norm. They’re one reason newly built homes are nearly twice the size of houses built in the 1950s, according to the National Association of Home Builders. So we’re eating out much more but building our own trophy kitchens at the same time. Go figure.

Don’t get me wrong: I enjoy eating a good meal in a restaurant as much as the next guy, cheapskate or otherwise. But to keep the financial indigestion from arriving with the dinner check, here are some ways to dine out for less:

Make mine a water. Restaurants typically mark up beverages—alcoholic and otherwise—by 300-600 percent. By drinking tap water with restaurant meals, the average family of four can save about $800 per year. If you want to have a glass of wine or a before-dinner cocktail, consider having one at home before you go out (as long as you have a designated driver, of course).

Control your own portions. Studies have shown that food portions served in restaurants tend to be about 60 percent larger than servings of dishes prepared at home. Gee, you don’t suppose that they’re serving us more so that they can charge us more, do you?

Consider ordering a smaller meal off the less expensive appetizer menu or splitting larger entrees with your dining companions.

Coupons, of course. Don’t be shy. Restaurant coupons you find in the newspaper, phonebook, Valpak mailers, or buy from outfits like Entertainment.com can really knock your restaurant check down to size. If you’re embarrassed about using a coupon, check out Web sites such as  Restaurant.com, where you can buy “gift certificates” for selected restaurants at a fraction of their face value.

Try it for lunch, not dinner. If you have your heart set on trying a new five-star restaurant in town, go for lunch rather than dinner. Many restaurants have similar menus at lunch and dinner, but lunch menu prices tend to be significantly lower, sometimes in exchange for slightly smaller portions.

Don’t order the salad bar unless that’s all you order. I love salad bars, but I’ve found that they either inspire me to overeat to the point of not enjoying my entrée, or else I don’t eat enough from the salad bar to make ordering it cost-effective. My policy now is that I either order only the salad bar, or only an entrée, but rarely both.

You say it’s your birthday? No, don’t be a jerk like a guy I know who claims it’s his birthday every time he eats out. Based on the number of free pieces of birthday cake he’s received over the years, he should be more than 1,200 years old by now. But when it really is your birthday, check out a Web site for a list of dining establishments that give you free or discounted meals or other perks on your special day.

Eat where the students eat. College students major in cheap eats. You can usually find a selection of bargain-priced dining establishments surrounding a college campus, including inexpensive ethnic restaurants and street food you might not otherwise discover.

Breakfast is the most important (and cheapest) meal of the day. Particularly when traveling, consider eating a hearty breakfast. It is usually the least expensive meal you can eat in a restaurant, and having a big repast in the morning will help you eat less throughout the day. Also, keep an eye open for restaurants that serve breakfast all day long for some tasty values.

Try lunch bars for a carry-out dinner. Self-serve lunch bars—where you buy hot and cold foods by the pound—are all the rage these days among office workers. In the late afternoon, many lunch bars mark down the food they have left, since they’re not open for dinner. Consider grabbing some for a bargain-priced carryout.

Kids eat free. Check out Mykidseatfree.com for a nationwide directory of thousands of dining establishments where children can eat for free or at a discount when accompanied by an adult.

Ask for a doggie bag. Thank Heaven, the days of being too embarrassed to take your restaurant leftovers home with you are long gone. Letting food go to waste is so last millennium. Make it a point to eat your leftovers within 24 hours.

Make home cooking faster than fast food. The key to reducing how much you spend on fast food and carryout is to make eating at home more convenient. Cook meals ahead of time in batches, and always have some simple-to-make meal ingredients on hand. That way, eating in will be easier than eating out.

When you do dine out, please don’t give us cheapskates a bad name. Remember to always tip accordingly, and base the gratuity on the total value of your meal, before any coupons or other discounts. Also, remember to log your savings in the Savings Challenge tracker.