During a career that spans more 20 years, Theodore Henderson has excelled as an articulate, organized and successful business manager and consultant. He has demonstrated a proven ability to build and maintain profitable, long-term relationships with a sophisticated client base.

A lifelong New Yorker, he holds an MBA degree with a concentration in Finance and Information Systems.

Theodore is passionate about speech and communication and the application of biblical principals to business and personal success. He works with individuals who want to use biblical principles and Christian faith as a guide to success in all the key areas of life: spiritual, social, personal, family, and business.

Learn to Resist the Urge to Spend

Money savings tips from Theodore HendersonNow, more than ever it is time to exercise financial restraint. Rather than spend the last five dollars in your wallet just because you got paid today is not wise. Consider taking that $5 and putting it in your savings account or your penny jar.

While it is easy for me to preach the reasons to save money, resisting the urge to buy something you really don’t need can be very difficult. One way to help yourself resist that urge is to understand how marketers and advertisers get to you, your emotions, and ultimately your last five dollars!

I am sure that you realize that marketing and advertising is tested and retested in focus groups to ensure that the marketing message will reach and grab the greatest number of potential customers. A purchase is often a reaction to an emotional appeal. For your “heading-back-to-school” teenager the lure is probably the most recent trend in clothing, mobile phones, or even a car! For you, the adult, it may be that you just have to have that really nice watch that you saw in the mall or a great Dooney and Bourke bag. After all, you have to look nice on the job or while you are job hunting, right?

But… there is a huge gap between what you want and what you really need.

Here is what you need in terms of money each month:

  • Housing: Mortgage payment or rent.
  • Debt: Credit card bills, student loans.
  • Travel: Gas, auto maintenance such as oil change, auto insurance, etc.
  • Food: This category includes groceries, personal care items, household care items such as cleaning supplies, pet food etc. You should also budget a small amount for dining out.
  • Utilities: Water, Electricity, Propane, Garbage pickup, etc.
  • Telephone (land-line, mobile, or both)
  • Insurance (home-owners, health, life, etc.)
  • Misc: Medical or Dental if you are not insured or have a high deductible.
  • Savings. Even if you can only afford to put $5 a month away, by making it a habit and seeing your savings grow, you will feel proud of yourself and compelled to save even more.

Here is what you may want, but don’t need:

  • That really terrific red Gucci bag that you saw in Saks the other day.
  • Daily cups of high-priced coffee at your favorite Starbucks or other coffee shop destination. Trust me, I love a great cup of coffee or a latte as much as the next person, but when you add those regular trips up, you will find at the end of the month that you could have paid more on a credit card bill or two or added more money to your savings account. I suggest that you treat this as just that, a treat. You will probably enjoy it more and you will certainly enjoy your savings more! 
  • $5o worth of lottery tickets. I know that hope springs eternal, but you are really just giving your hard-earned money away.
  • Dining out frequently can really be a budget buster that is easy to ignore. There is nothing wrong with going out for a nice meal once in a while or really splurging (if you can afford it!) for a special occasion such as an anniversary or birthday. However, many people eat out for lunch and then may head home, grab the family and eat out again. Or bring home something from a fast food restaurant. By taking your lunch to work most days you can save a substantial amount of money every month. This is also true for evening meals. Even if you are not a good cook, or just don’t really think you have the time to cook, it is very easy to pick up pre-made meals in the grocery store. You can purchase everything from pre-packaged salads to entrees. It is much easier on your budget and probably healthier.

Creating a budget is very easy by using one of the many free financial calculators available on the Internet.  You Can Deal With It.com has a nice one that will help you examine your money spending patterns.

How to Dine Out For Less

This is a great article on saving money while dining out from AARP by Jeff Yeager. He is the author of the book, ”The Ultimate Cheapskate’s Road Map to True Riches.” His Web site is http://www.ultimatecheapskate.com/.

How to Save Money While Dining OutAmericans have gone restaurant crazy. According to the U.S. Census Bureau, 42 percent of the typical American family’s food budget is now spent on food prepared outside the home—in other words, eating out.

As rates of dining out have steadily climbed during the past few decades, so has the size of the family kitchen. Kitchens with commercial-sized appliances and enough counter space to land an aircraft on are now the norm. They’re one reason newly built homes are nearly twice the size of houses built in the 1950s, according to the National Association of Home Builders. So we’re eating out much more but building our own trophy kitchens at the same time. Go figure.

Don’t get me wrong: I enjoy eating a good meal in a restaurant as much as the next guy, cheapskate or otherwise. But to keep the financial indigestion from arriving with the dinner check, here are some ways to dine out for less:

Make mine a water. Restaurants typically mark up beverages—alcoholic and otherwise—by 300-600 percent. By drinking tap water with restaurant meals, the average family of four can save about $800 per year. If you want to have a glass of wine or a before-dinner cocktail, consider having one at home before you go out (as long as you have a designated driver, of course).

Control your own portions. Studies have shown that food portions served in restaurants tend to be about 60 percent larger than servings of dishes prepared at home. Gee, you don’t suppose that they’re serving us more so that they can charge us more, do you?

Consider ordering a smaller meal off the less expensive appetizer menu or splitting larger entrees with your dining companions.

Coupons, of course. Don’t be shy. Restaurant coupons you find in the newspaper, phonebook, Valpak mailers, or buy from outfits like Entertainment.com can really knock your restaurant check down to size. If you’re embarrassed about using a coupon, check out Web sites such as  Restaurant.com, where you can buy “gift certificates” for selected restaurants at a fraction of their face value.

Try it for lunch, not dinner. If you have your heart set on trying a new five-star restaurant in town, go for lunch rather than dinner. Many restaurants have similar menus at lunch and dinner, but lunch menu prices tend to be significantly lower, sometimes in exchange for slightly smaller portions.

Don’t order the salad bar unless that’s all you order. I love salad bars, but I’ve found that they either inspire me to overeat to the point of not enjoying my entrée, or else I don’t eat enough from the salad bar to make ordering it cost-effective. My policy now is that I either order only the salad bar, or only an entrée, but rarely both.

You say it’s your birthday? No, don’t be a jerk like a guy I know who claims it’s his birthday every time he eats out. Based on the number of free pieces of birthday cake he’s received over the years, he should be more than 1,200 years old by now. But when it really is your birthday, check out a Web site for a list of dining establishments that give you free or discounted meals or other perks on your special day.

Eat where the students eat. College students major in cheap eats. You can usually find a selection of bargain-priced dining establishments surrounding a college campus, including inexpensive ethnic restaurants and street food you might not otherwise discover.

Breakfast is the most important (and cheapest) meal of the day. Particularly when traveling, consider eating a hearty breakfast. It is usually the least expensive meal you can eat in a restaurant, and having a big repast in the morning will help you eat less throughout the day. Also, keep an eye open for restaurants that serve breakfast all day long for some tasty values.

Try lunch bars for a carry-out dinner. Self-serve lunch bars—where you buy hot and cold foods by the pound—are all the rage these days among office workers. In the late afternoon, many lunch bars mark down the food they have left, since they’re not open for dinner. Consider grabbing some for a bargain-priced carryout.

Kids eat free. Check out Mykidseatfree.com for a nationwide directory of thousands of dining establishments where children can eat for free or at a discount when accompanied by an adult.

Ask for a doggie bag. Thank Heaven, the days of being too embarrassed to take your restaurant leftovers home with you are long gone. Letting food go to waste is so last millennium. Make it a point to eat your leftovers within 24 hours.

Make home cooking faster than fast food. The key to reducing how much you spend on fast food and carryout is to make eating at home more convenient. Cook meals ahead of time in batches, and always have some simple-to-make meal ingredients on hand. That way, eating in will be easier than eating out.

When you do dine out, please don’t give us cheapskates a bad name. Remember to always tip accordingly, and base the gratuity on the total value of your meal, before any coupons or other discounts. Also, remember to log your savings in the Savings Challenge tracker.

Keeping a Lid on Utility Costs

Keeping a Lid on Utility Bills by Theodore HendersonLet’s face it, the cost of utilities for our homes and offices are getting more expensive right along with just about everything else in life these days. When you add up the total monthly costs of phone services for home, office and mobile, electricity, gas, water, heating and air conditioning, they can use up a huge chunk of your monthly budget.

Here are a few things to consider to get your utility costs to a more manageable level.

Electricity

I am not suggesting that you do without A/C or heating, but it can easily use up the biggest portion of your utility budget. When it comes time to purchase or replace appliances, consider buying only the most energy-efficient appliances possible. The savings can add up big over time.

Another thing that is very helpful is to install a programmable thermostat in your home as it is one of the easiest ways you can save energy and money.

Be sure to ask your utility provider if it conducts energy audits of homes. You may well find many places where you can make simple changes such as caulking windows, or adding room darkening blinds or shades to reduce your utility bill.

Phone Service

Many people these days, particularly young adults are forgoing a land-line phone entirely, preferring to use their cell phones for calls and Internet.

But if you still prefer the traditional land line, match your package to your calling habits. If you almost never make long distance or international calls, it really doesn’t make sense to have a long distance package. Especially if your cell phone already covers long distance.

If you have any other ideas or suggestions for saving money on utilities, please share them with me here.